tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post5450232750972840665..comments2023-10-26T10:52:01.376-04:00Comments on His (un)Submissive Young Lady: Spankings and FightsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06196703996717084620noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-91009665969815049942014-07-18T10:50:39.591-04:002014-07-18T10:50:39.591-04:00Annie - that's very true! :)Annie - that's very true! :) Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06196703996717084620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-9420644696234199502014-07-14T15:36:58.853-04:002014-07-14T15:36:58.853-04:00You're learning and that ain't all bad - r...You're learning and that ain't all bad - right? Dependence and vulnerability aren't places I like to vacation either but to experience his grace, compassion, wisdom and LOVE certainly makes it better. <br /><br />Annie Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-21406107403951030252014-07-14T00:30:01.818-04:002014-07-14T00:30:01.818-04:00We <3 you. *laugh* And I think you are right ri...We <3 you. *laugh* And I think you are right right right!!! ***HUG*** 'tis SO hard to ask, but it's good for both of us. It puts me in a place of dependence and vunerability. And it puts him in a place to extend love and grace and compassion. And wisdom. lol.<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06196703996717084620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-63529481120122322022014-07-11T14:37:17.063-04:002014-07-11T14:37:17.063-04:00Um well NOT going to get in the middle of THAT fig...Um well NOT going to get in the middle of THAT fight. BUT I know how difficult it is to ask- even if 9 times out of 10 Barney will say yes. Scratch that 9.9 times out of 10. Heck I can't even recall a time he has said NO. YET it is still difficult for me to ask. I think that is the most difficult part of 'submission' for me. I think for me at least I am stubbornly prideful about it.<br /><br />Knowing my husband he would be upset because now we are HALF way into the overdraft. I may use overdraft as part of our income, where as he uses it as protection- ya know, the way it is intended. Darn men and their deductive reasoning!! Basically you have made his paycheck $100 less- even if you did need the phone...Ooops I wasn't going to get involved.<br /><br />My first rule was no spin doctoring. So in this case, if I knew in my heart what I did was wrong, I wasn't allowed to sugar coat it, or come up with reasons why I couldn't ask, if they weren't valid. Meh...asking SUCKS! But it is necessary in any relationship actually. Informing the other of major financial decisions when possible. <br /><br />Good luck with the future askingwilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-48578081232179004722014-07-10T16:33:25.442-04:002014-07-10T16:33:25.442-04:00*raspberries to you both.... followed by Big Hugs ...*raspberries to you both.... followed by Big Hugs and much thanks* *grin*<br /><br />I think y'all are right. I just don't like it.<br /><br />His desire is that I just give him a call or email "is this okay" and I don't want to ask if it is okay I want to just do it. I don't like having to ask permission. he says his job is to make sure it is easy for me to ask, that he doesn't make me feel guilty or bad and that he generally supports my decision, and it's my job to ask. I don't like to ask. I like to act. :-p <br /><br />Ok "funny comment" my friend was essentially like "In cases where the Dom needs to make sure the Subby is eating, he needs to be more hands on in things like that" Lol! :-pAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06196703996717084620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-32115321771156077682014-07-10T15:08:19.160-04:002014-07-10T15:08:19.160-04:00LOL-- I'm with Irish Lucky. I totally support...LOL-- I'm with Irish Lucky. I totally support you. ;) And, um, yeah... big purchases that put you into overdraft should probably be discussed. <3Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776554759259292029.post-72073767928373162162014-07-10T13:48:09.830-04:002014-07-10T13:48:09.830-04:00Hi Polly,
Oh my... Um, well.... So I am being s...Hi Polly,<br /><br />Oh my... Um, well.... So I am being supportive in you took action and probably pulled in a great deal!! :0) <br /><br />But um.. perhaps maybe you should have talked with him about it and the timing of the money and all of it before acting. I know that I would be in BIG time trouble had I done what you did too. Sorry, I was super supportive first right!?! :0) <br /><br />Sending lots of positive energy and thoughts your way, hoping the two of you get this worked out quickly. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />Irish LuckyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15409977636543884387noreply@blogger.com