ok first..... I had the "worst" belting I've ever had today. it still hurts an hour later which is super duper rare for me/us. I normally cannot feel a spanking much after, but he was really serious and it stuck. It was because I keep not eating and because I called myself a lot of names last night online in an attempt to have people yell at me/tell me different because i felt so emotionally out of control. But instead of asking for help I manipulated with me words.
That was good. Good Dommy Hubby - here is your cookie. ;-)
O.M.G. That man is on my last nerve. You CANNOT tell me to be an
adult, that I am not a child, that being a little subby wifey and great
and cute, but you need me to be an adult and take care of myself and
discuss things "as equals" (his words not mine) and then when we discuss
things be pissed when I keep saying that I don't agree with your
viewpoint!!! Either you accept the forced "Ok, I will submit" or you
accept the genuine "I genuinely do not think I did anything wrong and here is why", but you are not going to get a genuine "adult" "You're right I am wrong" because I DONT THINK I AM WRONG!!!
The "story" is that he knew i needed a new cellphone, we have been
talking about it for weeks, I have been phoneless for weeks, an amazing
deal came up today AND my old phone sold today, so it would put us at
-45 in the bank. We have a 300 overdraft protection, and he gets paid on
friday. I decided this was a viable option/plan and bought the phone.
He is all pissed that I didn't consult him, he doesn't agree with my
reasoning or my choice, he doesn't like that I did this
"independently".... I wasnt going behind his back. We had agreed on
getting me a new phone. The only part that we didnt agree on was doing
it today and this specific phone.
Now to be fair to him the
money from selling my phone had not come through yet, so we are actually
-145 instead of -45... but still....
Anyways any thoughts on this?? And
I told him I was going to vent now and he said that it better be
respectfully done because the people on here know the difference and it
looks bad on him if I am not.:-p