It was good good night in the (Hmm I never gave us a pseudo last name... we shall evermore be My Man and Young Lady Firebird ;-)), er, it was a good good night in the Firebird household. Whewmama!!
So, the last couple of weeks we have both been working a lot. I mean, a lot for me meaning that I got a p/t job and My Man has just been working 45 - 50 hour weeks. And, we are both exhausted at the end of the day and My Man tends to sleep until 30 mins before he needs to leave. (even if he doesn't need to leave 'til 1pm ;-)) We have been having semi-regular sex, but it hasn't been amazing just decent. (which for us actually isn't bad since we've spent much of our marriage with me hating intercourse, foreplay, and aftercare :-p )
Tonight we had an impromptu date - he showed me his old neighborhood and then treated us at our favorite steakhouse. It was super fun and relaxing. But, my need to be dominated was growing. It has been the past couple of weeks - I don't just want him to spank me - I want him to take control and leave me to his care. At dinner I had mentioned to him "I want stripes." and then later in the night I was sassing him in the car (in the hopes he would spank me :)). As he got out of the car I said "Fuck you." (I basically use fuck you, fucktard, fuckwad... to get immediate funishment ;)) and then threw his hat on the ground outside the door. He responded "Those stripes you wanted, definitely coming your way." I had shivers and hopes, but especially in the last few weeks his threats don't always meet with action once we get inside. Because we are so tired once we get inside and he has used the facilities and changed into comfy clothes he just wants to rest, and often my desire to be beaten has diminished and I plead out. Not tonight...
After he got ready I walked into the bedroom and he took control. Oh it was glorious!! He took his time chaining me to the bed, kissing my body, touching me all over, gently swatting my bottom and back and thighs, getting harder and harder until I could "feel the burn", then he started in with the flogger - that thing can pack a punch *laugh*, but I was enoying the attention more than hating the pain. :) Then he started in with my "favorite" implement - it actually probably is my favorite because it has the best results, but I never fear it's going to actually harm me. Our plastic knitting needles. They are super thin and flexible, so they sting and welt without bruising. Another plus is that there are two of them and they are easily wielded in two hands, so My Man has gotten REALLY good at using both at the same time to set a rhythym. I don't know how else to explain them except that most of the time it feels like itty bitty stings ALL OVER MY BODY! It's very uncomfortable and I start squirming a lot, but it's never totally unbearable. Tonight he asked me if I really wanted welts that would last. I said yes. He decided he was going to do "surprise attacks" basically do the little stings and then hit when I didn't expect. I SCREAMED - and he, being a good dom and hubby, stopped immediately. O.M.G. It hurt like crazy. I started crying. This has only happened once before (tears) - wow. Once I calmed down and explained I was upset now because it was in the middle of my back and I couldn't see it he did 2 more, once on each thigh. Those weren't nearly as horrible, but it didn't matter because I never did get to see them...which leads to part 2. of 3. ;-)
THEN, he rolled me over onto my back and started playing with my body. He tried doing nipple clamps, but I have inverted nipples and REALLY big boobs (42 DD-DDD), so it's super hard to get them to stay on. :-p Long story short I have never orgasmed except with a vibrator alone. Anything else touching me at the same time frustrates me and I can't "finish". (even the O's I get from vibe aren;'t AMAZING... early in our marriage the vibe would make me GUSH liquid, like i was soak through our mattress - really wet - lol, not there is nothing) Tonight he decided we were going to get me to O with the hitachi AND his fingers inside of me. After forever and much crying and gnashing of teeth - IT WORKED!! And it felt REALLY good!! :D
THHEEEEEEN, he fucked. O.M.G. He fucked me and it felt SO GOOD!!! And the bestest part... I asked him to put the small butt plug in me AND IT FELT AMAZING AS HE FUCKED ME!!!! Wow... I have never experienced that before and I LOOOOOVED IT!!!! (which probably means next time I will absolutely hate it, but for today I LOVED IT! :))
Then we tried the "medium" plug and it hurt so bad I couldn't let him get it all the way in. I REALLY wish our plugs came in closer together sizes!!! It goes from my thumb (maybe just bigger) to bigger than all 5 of my fingers together. Really annoying.
Anyways, I HAD AN AMAZING NIGHT!!! :D :D :D I love My Man SOOOOOO MUCH!!!!! I got to talk dirty to him as he came and it was great!! YAY!!!