be "allowed" to say "Clean XYZ by the time I get home or I am going to spank you."
If this was not something was already specifically agreed upon??
We have a blanket "I do what he tells me", but... we had a huge fight over this this morning...
And I feel overwhelmed and depressed and angry. I told him I might have done it had he not threatened, but now I just wanna go to the mall and spend money and leave it because he doesn't deserve for me to do it now. :-p
I am doing it, but I really dont think it will be all done.