Friday, April 12, 2013

Should an HoH....

be "allowed" to say "Clean XYZ by the time I get home or I am going to spank you."

If this was not something was already specifically agreed upon??

We have a blanket "I do what he tells me", but... we had a huge fight over this this morning...

And I feel overwhelmed and depressed and angry. I told him I might have done it had he not threatened, but now I just wanna go to the mall and spend money and leave it because he doesn't deserve for me to do it now. :-p

I am doing it, but I really dont think it will be all done.

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  1. I can only go by what you've written here, but if he said do it, don't you think you should follow his direction? :)

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    1. **rolls eyes** maaaaaybe. :-p :-) ;-)

      I did it mostly. I think there are still dishes in the sink (he "asked" me to clean the kitchen since we have company coming over tomorrow) A LARGE part of me wants to put something nasty in the middle of the freshly mopped floor. :-p

      Can you tell my submissive bone is broken today? :)

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    2. Sink is empty. *smirk* And the floor is clean, nothing gross. **Sigh** He shouldn't get what he wants just because he bullies me... although he INSISTS it isn't bullying me and when I am not at "this point" in my cycle I want this... **eyebrows** I don't want this... I want a milkshake.

      Now to be fair to him... he DID ask me this morning what would motivate me more (threats or rewards) and I told him neither and to leave me alone about it, so... he chose. :-p :)

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  2. Yeah, I feel like if I'm given an order like that it has to have waggled eyebrows and be a sexy threat (which doesn't mean the consequences wouldn't be a spanking) to turn me on and turn me into a good girl and try to please him. If it feels too serious, I'd be just as resentful as you. Does that make sense? It's a fine line of being turned on and off by dominance...

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