How does My Man know the right things to do and say??
He doesn't have a phone or internet today, and yet he called from the office phone to ask if I am ok and if I am eating. I am now at 500 instead of 300 calories. (Bas/Mr. Woods, see an improvement, 500 at 8pm instead of 300... though it was 300 until he called :-p)
Amazing how 200 calories (half a chicken breast and 10 baby carrots) can perk a girl up. I still feel like I'll never be the subbie wife he needs, but I don't feel quite as hopeless.
Good to hear! Mine packed me a dinner tonight so I could eat on the run.. Aren't they sweet to us??
ReplyDeleteVery!!! And it's amazing to me how long-suffering My Man is. He is usually the most tender and compassionate when I feel like the most failure.
Deleteoh I'll make a subbie wife out of you yet!
ReplyDeletehaha... My Man says I have decided to "submit to Fondles" *laugh* He seems to be constantly amused that ideas he has had forever and I balked at all of the sudden I am initiating because "Fondles suggested it." ;-)
DeleteThank you.
Glad to hear you're eating more! And very glad to hear you're not feeling quite so hopeless. Your last two posts were worrisome, and while I'm not privy to your specific situation, I wanted to say that Kitty and I have been in places in the past where I felt like giving up as her Dom. And the truth is, I didn't really want that at all. Often it was simply that I was frustrated with what was going on in the moment, because I was either trying to be the kind of Dom she didn't want me to be, or I was expecting her to be the kind of sub that she didn't enjoy being. Again, I'm not sure of the details of your situation, but I will say that if you're trying to model what you THINK a Dom or a sub should be, instead of trying create your own style of D/s together as a unique couple, then there are probably going to be a lot of frustrating times.
ReplyDeleteThank you!! I actually ended up bingeing last night (Shh don't tell Fondles) and was well over my minimum (and 22 over my max GRR) by the time I went to sleep.
DeleteThe details of our situation... we don't even know. I am a flip-flopper on what I want and what I need. So it depends on the day. :-p