This is a debate My Man and I have had our whole marriage, but it came up again a few nights ago, and he suggested I ask the blog world.
Ladies out there - I know there ARE women out there who love to give blowjobs - it makes you happy, excited, fulfilled, whatever. And **I** know there ARE women out there like me (although My Man seriously thinks they are much fewer than I think) who are grossed out and disgusted by it. (I perform it for him, but I REALLY don't like it, I gag everytime, I HATE the thought of the body part he pees out of being in my mouth)
But my contention is that I believe MOST women do it because they love their spouse and want him to be happy and sexually satisfied, but it's not like when you hear him grunt "Give me a blow job" or trying to stick his penis in your face or something other indicator that he wants "service" that you're overjoyed and excited about it.
Am I just off the mark?